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Why does it have to be on me? Why do I have to do all the work when my spouse isn't even trying?
I hear this constantly. And I get it.
But here's the truth.
Communication takes two people. But it has to start with one.
And if you're sitting in that mindset of why is this all on me, it's going to seep into every conversation you have. Your spouse will feel it. Nothing will change.
At some point you just have to say, I'm doing this because I love my spouse and I want this marriage to work. Even when it feels one-sided.
You said until death do us part. That wasn't conditional.
Your feelings matter. But if you live in the hurt and the resentment you're going to stay exactly where you are.
Put it to the side. Do the work.
That's how progress actually happens.
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