Should I Have Sex With My Spouse While We're Separated?

Marriage Helper Short 14 days ago

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You’re separated.

He still comes by.

And you’re wondering if you’re doing something you shouldn’t.

That question comes to us more than you’d think. Should I be sleeping with my spouse while we’re separated? Is it helping? Is it hurting? Is it even okay?

In this video, Dr. Joe Beam answers it the way only he can. He’s spent 30 years working with thousands of couples, taught human sexuality at the university level for eight years, and he’s a man of deep faith. So he’s not going to give you a one-word answer.

Here’s the short version.

It’s your choice. He’s still your husband. She’s still your wife. You have every right.

But not for the reason you think.

If you’re doing it because you believe it’s going to bring them back, that’s where it gets dangerous. Not physically. Emotionally. You start building an expectation. Every time, that expectation grows. And the truth is, they may just be there because it’s comfortable. Because you’re safe.

Possibility is not probability.

And if you’re the one who wants out, and you keep going back for it anyway, you need to hear what that does to the person still hoping.

Dr. Beam also walks through the questions nobody wants to ask. Is your spouse seeing other people? What does that mean for your health? What happens if a pregnancy comes out of this and they still don’t want to come home?

Hard questions. Honest answers.

Watch this before you make the next decision.

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