Should You Divorce after an Affair? #shorts #marriageadvise #divorce #affair
Short | 1 months ago
Someone commented that you should find a therapist who supports you no matter what you choose. What I hear is find someone who will tell you what you want to hear. I get it. An affair is one of the deepest breaches of commitment possible. You have every rig...
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Are You Overcomplicating Things in Your Relationship? #shorts #marriageadvise #relationship
Guide | 1 months ago
We overcomplicate our marriages so much that we end up doing nothing. We don't know how to word it. We're scared of saying the wrong thing. So we wait. But what if the question is simpler than you think? Go to your spouse and say, I know I've done things th...
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Dr John Gottman Reveals All The Top Secrets For Great Relationships
Podcast | 1 months ago
Most marriage advice is recycled fluff. This is not. I sat down with Dr. John Gottman, the man who has spent 40+ years studying what actually makes marriages work and what destroys them. Not opinions. Not theories. Exposed-to-thousands-of-couples-in-a-resea...
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Do People Desperately Want to make their Marriage Work? #shorts #marriageadvise #divorce
Short | 1 months ago
Someone commented that there's no reason to force two people to stay together. If the love is gone just sign the paperwork and move on. Nobody here is forcing anyone to do anything. The people who come to Marriage Helper come because commitment still means ...
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She was too Late to tell Him how She Feels #foryou #marriageadvise #relationship
Short | 1 months ago
A woman wrote in saying she's had feelings for the same man for almost 30 years. He's married. She just ended an engagement. She says she'll never act on it. And she's still in contact with him. Here's my honest response. It's time to let this go. Completel...
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Are You Consistently Listening? #foryou # #marriageadvise
Short | 1 months ago
Everyone knows listening matters in communication. But most people still aren't doing it. And the ones who do it once think that's enough. It isn't. Think about a loop machine. The first track you lay down is making sure your spouse feels heard. You're not ...
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Your Kids are the Helpess Victims of Divorce #foryou #marriageadvise #divorce
Short | 1 months ago
Let's stop pretending divorce doesn't affect kids. It does. I know our culture says do what makes you happy. That you deserve peace. That staying for the kids is outdated. But before any decision gets made, sit with this honestly. Your kids don't get a vote...
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Affairs, AI, and a 30 Year Crush – Reacting To Unhinged YouTube Comments
Video | 1 months ago
Subscribe to Dr. Kimberly's YouTube Channel: @kimberlybeamholmes You leave the comments. I read them. This week I'm going straight into the ones that made me stop scrolling. The bold ones. The angry ones. The ones that questioned everything I teach. A woman...
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What is Positive Sentiment Override? #foryou #marriageadvise #relationship
Short | 1 months ago
When Dr. Joe Beam was in limerence up to 85% of his waking hours were spent daydreaming about the other woman. And if anyone tried to point out her flaws? He pushed back every time. You don't know her like I do. That's called positive sentiment override. A ...
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Are You in Limerence? #foryou #marriageadvice #divorce
Short | 2 months ago
Let me describe something and tell me if it sounds familiar. There's someone and the desire to be with them is overwhelming. Almost obsessive. You need them to feel as deeply about you as you feel about them. It eats at you all day. And underneath it is con...
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Building Better Habits #foryou #marriageadvise #relationship
Short | 2 months ago
My PhD is in performance psychology. Five years studying habits, behavior change, and what actually makes change stick. Here's one of the most important things I learned. Stopping a behavior is harder than starting a new one. We focus on what we need to qui...
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I Couldn't Live with Myself Unless I Gave it Every Ounce of Effort I Could #marriageadvise #divorce
Short | 2 months ago
He struggled with a fear of failure his whole life. His way of handling it was simple. Don't try. You can't fail at something you never attempt. Then his marriage went into crisis. And something flipped. For the first time the fear of not trying became bigg...
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