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We overcomplicate our marriages so much that we end up doing nothing.
We don't know how to word it. We're scared of saying the wrong thing. So we wait.
But what if the question is simpler than you think?
Go to your spouse and say, I know I've done things that have made you feel unloved. I want to do better. Can you tell me one thing I do that actually helps you feel seen?
Then listen.
Or ask the flip side. What do I do that makes you feel like I don't love you?
When they say something hard, don't defend yourself. Just say thank you for telling me that.
Is this guaranteed to work? No. Your spouse gets to choose how they respond.
But what's the alternative? Keep guessing? Keep waiting?
You have almost nothing to lose by asking. And the potential gain is massive.
Ask the question. Listen. Then do the opposite of what's pushing them away.
Not complicated. Just uncomfortable.
And uncomfortable is worth it.
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