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Please don’t let the trolls and the critics stop you from singing, sharing your voice or performing on stage.
I know it hurts. I’ve received my fair share of cruel comments, dislikes and even had another vocal coach create a parody video of me.
And these things have caused me to hold my tongue for weeks, months and sometimes years.
The regret that I have is the amount of time I spent locking my wounds and hibernating.
Of not trusting that I could handle it.
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Your willingness to meet the tender parts of yourself and build your capacity for discomfort will determine the bigness of your life.
And will help you get faster and faster at bouncing back after judgment, ridicule or rejection.
The more I
✅ do my own work with my insecure parts,
✅ anchor into the fact that I’m entitled to my own opinions and sense of taste and
✅ remind myself to have compassion for the trolls
the less rocky the road becomes.
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Trust me, you can hide yourself away and never utter a note but you still won’t be completely safe from judgement and criticism in your life.
So if you know building your resilience is something you want to do, why not use a beautiful and creative outlet like singing as your training ground? ❤️