Why New Year’s Resolutions Fail (It’s the “Shoulds”)

Dr. Christian Conte Video 6 months ago

Description

Every year, people ask about New Year’s resolutions. And the real issue isn’t the goal, it’s the “shoulds.”

Most people can set a clear goal. But the moment they slip up, they start a shame spiral:
“I should never mess up.” I should already be there.”
And then they derail their entire progress.

In this video, I share a story to show how ridiculous perfectionism really is, and then I give the real solution: Come back to the present moment.

The past is gone. The future is unreachable. The only moment you have is this one.
So ask, What is the most effective choice I can make right now?

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