Description
“I meet my obligations as a parent in order to show my love for them. The exact same thing should be the case in marriage.”
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A teaching once commonly called the marital debt has nearly vanished from ordinary Catholic conversation. What did the Church mean by it and how can spouses take their mutual obligations seriously without turning marriage into entitlement or coercion?
In this video, I look at the biblical and traditional language of mutual responsibility in marriage, why love and obligation belong together, and how conjugal intimacy should be approached with patience, self-control, and concern for the other spouse.
Timestamps
- 0:00 The forgotten language of the marital debt
- 0:49 What does “marital debt” mean?
- 1:37 What distinguishes marriage from other relationships?
- 3:12 Obligation and love are not opposites
- 5:00 Why marriage cannot depend on constant infatuation
- 6:10 St. Paul and the teaching of the Church Fathers
- 7:22 The mutuality of the obligation
- 8:00 Why feelings alone cannot define marital responsibility
- 10:19 The danger of treating marriage as sexual entitlement
- 11:08 Accommodation, self-control, and concern for one another
- 12:03 Marriage as a school of virtue
Music written and generously provided by Paul Jernberg. Find out more about his work as a composer here: http://pauljernberg.com
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