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Tarbiyat ke 3 Zaraye | Ghar, Masjid aur Achhi Sohbat
تربیت کے 3 ذرائع | گھر، مسجد اور اچھی صحبت
Three Sources of Tarbiyya | Home, Mosque and Righteous Company
Shaykh-ul-Islam Dr Muhammad Tahir-ul-Qadri
Speech No: Hc-45
Duration: 67 Minutes
Place: Rotherham, UK
Dated: June 5, 2026
This video explains how, in the modern era, homes in Muslim societies have gradually ceased to function as centers of children’s spiritual upbringing and purification of the self, and have instead become more like mere “hostels” or places of residence. The video presents an academic explanation of how many parents today have limited their responsibilities to meeting their children’s physical needs, paying school fees, providing food, and taking care of their health, while their intellectual, moral, and conceptual development is increasingly being shaped by three major sources school, society, and social media. It is also explained that the foundations of a child’s personality and neurological development, including neural connections, begin to form even before birth, particularly from around the sixth month of pregnancy. If, during the first twelve to thirteen years of life, a child does not experience a home environment characterized by purity, modesty, Qur’anic recitation, and the remembrance of Allah, then seeking amulets from spiritual guides during adolescence cannot serve as a substitute for proper upbringing. The real protective amulet was the pure environment that should have shaped the child’s mind and inner self from the beginning. Furthermore, the video presents three fundamental solutions for protecting the faith of the younger generation from the many challenges and influences surrounding them: making mosques more welcoming and attractive, providing the company of righteous people, and developing a Language of Continuation that enables religious values, identity, and guidance to be transmitted effectively to future generations.
📌 Chapters:
0:00 - Home or Hostel? Comparing Child Upbringing in the Modern Age
2:43 - Parents’ Responsibility: Only Material Needs or Spiritual Upbringing Too?
6:08 - The Family Environment of the Past: Qur’anic Recitation, Modesty, and Parents as Role Models
11:40 - Modern Neighborhoods and Isolation: The Decline of Social Values
15:00 - Neural Connections: How Does a Child’s Brain Develop Before Birth?
18:00 - Parents’ Mutual Behavior and the Psychology of an Infant
21:10 - Disobedience in Adolescence and the Reality of “Amulets”
25:00 - The Triple Attack of School, Society, and Social Media
28:40 - Multi-Dimensional Attacks on the Faith of the Younger Generation and 3 Fundamental Solutions
32:40 - The Company of the Righteous: 3 Key Signs of Good Friends
36:30 - How Can Mosques Become Attractive and a “Comfort Zone” for Children?
41:53 - The Prophetic Sunnah ﷺ: Shortening the Prayer for the Sake of Children
44:40 - The Language of Communication vs. the Language of Continuation
54:30 - Misleading Content on the Internet and the Importance of the Mother Tongue
57:50 - The Foundation of Family Upbringing: Reviewing Books and Developing Intellectual Maturity
1:03:08 - The Risk of Losing Identity After Two Generations in the Western World and the Message for the Future
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