i don't want to rest, i want to lock in: a burnt-out girl's guide to summer

Stella Rae Podcast Podcast 1 months ago

Description

Feeling burnt out but also tired of being told to "just rest"? In today's episode, we're talking realistic wellness for high-achieving women who want to stay disciplined without missing out on life.

I discuss:

✨ Why traditional "rest advice" doesn't work for everyone
✨ How to avoid burnout while still chasing your goals
✨ Balancing fitness, work, and having a social life this summer
✨ My thoughts on alcohol, calories, and making healthier choices when going out
✨ Dating icks, feminine energy, and why manners still matter
✨ The "boy mom" conversation and how patriarchy impacts both women and men
✨ How to stop trying to do everything perfectly and actually enjoy your life

If you're a Type-A girly, wellness enthusiast, or someone trying to balance self-improvement with living in the moment, this episode is for you.

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00:00 Why "just rest" isn't helpful advice for high-achievers
02:18 Why traditional rest feels stressful for Type-A personalities
04:32 Finding what actually recharges you
06:54 You can't give 100% to every area of your life
08:03 Planning ahead to avoid burnout and enjoy your social life
09:16 Why sleep changed everything for me
10:07 Summer mindset shifts: discipline vs. making memories
13:09 Enjoying your life without abandoning your goals
13:58 Alcohol, tequila sodas & healthier drinking habits
17:50 Calories, wellness culture & tracking food without obsession
22:35 Men's dating icks about women—and my thoughts
24:58 Princess treatment, manners & feminine energy
27:19 Why talking too much can hurt dating interactions
29:42 Time management, being late & respecting people's time
32:07 Open body language and changing your dating mindset
35:16 Summer fun, taking life less seriously & embracing your lore
36:48 Boy moms, patriarchy & raising emotionally healthy boys
43:50 TikTok as a learning tool, macros & quick Q&A
45:38 Final thoughts & summer vibes

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