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Research discovered that people with high internalized shame often engage in self-defeating behaviors. These self-defeating behaviors include accepting poor treatment, people-pleasing tendencies, and a failure to set clear boundaries.
Shame-filled men often transform into nice guys, not out of genuine kindness but as a way to get their needs met. They believe that pleasing women and avoiding conflict will lead to acceptance.6 In reality, their behavior crushes respect and kills attraction.
Men who carry shame often end up in abusive relation-ships because they struggle to set boundaries. Shame-filled men are also more likely to accept disrespect and emotional abuse because their subconscious tells them they deserve to be mistreated. They become stuck in abusive relation-ships because, deep down, they don’t believe they deserve respect. Consequently, they struggle to set boundaries because they’re terrified of upsetting women.
If you don’t believe you deserve respect, women will reflect that belief back to you. If you tolerate disrespect, women will treat you with disrespect. Shame prevents men from living the life they deserve and holds them back, trap-ping them—often for years—in terrible situations.
On the other hand, shame-free men approach relation-ships from a place of abundance, not neediness. They attract women who respect them because they respect themselves. Each time you allow a woman to disrespect you, shame squeezes the life out of you like a serpent in a death grip.
When a man abandons his needs to please a woman, he creates resentment and misery on both sides. The woman loses respect for the man, and the man grows bitter toward the woman, blaming her for a situation he helped create.
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Chris Canwell
(Psychologist)
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