What Would A Stoic Say? Civil Discourse in an Age of Outrage with Diane Kalen-Sukra

Modern Stoicism Guide 9 months ago

Description

We live in an "age of outrage," where toxic discourse and incivility erode trust and undermine our ability to solve problems together. How can we restore constructive dialogue in a world shaped by algorithms that reward outrage?

In this insightful lecture, Diane Kalen-Sukra, author of "Save Your City," asks: "What would a Stoic say?"

She argues that the breakdown of civil discourse is not a superficial communication problem, but a "civic crisis". To find the antidote, Kalen-Sukra looks to the ancient wisdom of Stoicism, starting with its "moral prototype": Socrates.

Discover how Socrates and the Stoics viewed dialogue not as a debate to win, but as a "public duty" and a form of "soulcraft"—a shared practice of "reasoning together" for the common good. This talk bridges ancient philosophy with modern neuroscience to offer a practical discipline for civic renewal.

In this video, you will learn:
- Why civil discourse was, for Socrates, a "moral exercise" to awaken the soul, as demonstrated in Plato's *Republic*.
- The Stoic discipline of *Proseche* (attentiveness) and the importance of "preparing the self" before we speak.
- Three practical Stoic disciplines for engagement: Pause, Remember (invoking Marcus Aurelius's "they are my kin"), and Commit to the common good.
- How modern neuroscience confirms Stoic wisdom, revealing that reasoned dialogue creates "inter-brain synchrony" and strengthens the "neural circuits that make us capable of self-governance".
- Why a 40% decline in empathy since the 1980s is a threat to our *Logos* (shared reason).
- A "modern Stoic oath" to help us become "citizens of the Logos" and turn discourse into a form of "civic healing".

About the Speaker:
Diane Kalen-Sukra is a former city manager, consultant, and author of "Save Your City: How Toxic Culture Kills Community and What to Do About It".