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I keep hearing all these variations of the same question,
How do you make an avoidant fall in love….
Cause you can’t say “I love you.” They’ll run.
You can’t say, “I miss you.” They’ll think about running.
And everything I’ve researched basically tells you that the best way to make them fall for you is to ignore them.
And most people jive with that. But over my 12 long years of doing this. Of studying avoidants… being an avoidant… what if I were to tell you that asking “how to make them fall in love” is the wrong question.
Instead, you should be asking “how do I make them feel so safe that they’ll finally let me in?”