If you keep "running out of things to say" the second she's actually in front of you, this is why... and bootcamp is how you fix it: https://jeffreyinperson.com/vibing
This video breaks down the buffering freeze: why your body flips into a different operating system the moment the outcome matters, and how the guys who seem effortlessly funny are running MOTION, not material.
The Void Underground (train the nervous system weekly): https://thevoidunderground.com