We waste so much energy trying to decode people when their actions already told us everything. Accepting that saves you years of confusion.
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If They Wanted To, They Would
We waste so much energy trying to decode people when their actions already told us everything. Accepting that saves you years of confusion.
Open this video on Mark MansonTikTok Is Making Your Decisions For You
The scariest part of endless scrolling isn't the wasted time. It's waking up one day and realizing you no longer know what you actually like, only what the algorithm decided you like.
Open this video on Mark MansonThe Strait of Hormuz is Why You're Still Single
Get the 80,000 Hours career guide free when you sign up for their newsletter: 80000hours.org/markmanson. (Because "follow your passion" was never good advice.) The Strait of Hormuz has been holding the global economy hostage for months and it turns out the ...
Open this video on Mark MansonStop Trying to Be Confident
Confidence as a side effect of doing hard things is a very different proposition than confidence as a goal in itself. One produces something real. The other mostly just produces people who are very certain about things they haven't actually tested.
Open this video on Mark MansonWhy Everyone Online Acts Like They're 12
The internet didn't make anyone dumber. It just rewarded the parts of us that never wanted to grow up in the first place.
Open this video on Mark MansonWhy Dumb People Think They're Smart
Idiots are certain. Smart people are full of doubt. Calibrated confidence requires enough knowledge to actually see the gaps, which means the more you learn, the more uncertain you often feel. Watch the full episode here: https://mrk.mn/H8cVFPf.
Open this video on Mark MansonWhy Affirmations Make You Feel Worse
Cognitive dissonance is the mechanism here. Your brain can't hold "I am worthy" and "I don't believe that" at the same time without resolving the conflict somehow, and it usually resolves it in the wrong direction.
Open this video on Mark MansonThe Approval Trap
The version of yourself you hide to stay likable is the same version that keeps you from being truly known. Real connection starts on the other side of the risk most people spend their lives avoiding.
Open this video on Mark MansonWhat Breaking the Cycle Looks Like
Make sure the fire stops with you.
Open this video on Mark MansonHow to Stop a Master Manipulator
Manipulation runs on secrecy, so naming the tactic out loud is often all it takes to strip it of power. The same principle Jung applied to your own patterns works just as well on everyone else's.
Open this video on Mark MansonThe Focus Paradox
Attention is the one skill that quietly shapes whether your life feels present or perpetually out of reach. Learning to stay with the page you're on might be the closest thing there is to actually living it.
Open this video on Mark MansonI have a dream...
Somewhere along the way we started treating certainty as a personality trait and silence as weakness. The strongest thing you can do in most conversations is admit you don't know enough to have a strong opinion yet.
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