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Dating Outside my Race as A Nigerian Woman
Am I wrong for wanting black children? As a Nigerian-American woman, I'm getting into a conversation I've never said out loud before — dating outside my race, what it could mean for my future kids, and whether I'm ready to let go of passing down my culture and skin tone. No judgment either way — I just think we owe it to our future kids to actually think this stuff through.
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Chapters 00:00 Intro - Am I Wrong for Wanting Black Children? 03:51 A Few Disclaimers Before We Get Into It 05:08 If I Had Kids With Someone White (Genetics & Phenotype) 06:10 Coming to Terms With a Lighter-Skinned Child 07:36 Would I Be Sad? Working Through It Out Loud 08:12 My Grandchildren Being "Just a Distant Memory" 09:09 Is Wanting This Just Biology? 12:42 Clarifying: Race vs. Culture 14:23 Why Black Women Struggle to Find Black Love 15:03 The "Competition" Theory & Is This Women's Burden to Carry? 18:00 Producer's Joke 19:30 Applications for Husbands (lol) 19:40 Final Thoughts
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